Why Having Babies Is More Important Than Making Money
REASON #1: The Birds and the Bees
Everyone loves the act that makes babies, and that act sells, but sells “what” exactly? We are marketed that act as means of extracting our presumed productivity metric; money. Want a quality wife, make money! Want to avoid marrying that man you don’t want, make money! But the truth is, in this approach, money makes women ugly and men weak. That act was the innovative incentive put in place to sell you on love for the opposite gender and then childbirth, now it’s a leveraged marketing and manipulation tool. When you waste your attentive energy on empty fantasy, on a void that doesn’t have a real person with meaningful connection on the other end, you lose vigor and “true production” capabilities. Living like this leaves you in a position of being controlled by outside forces and psychologically puts you within a biologically perpetuated slave state mentality.
Becoming one flesh is an awesome thing when not sold to us and rather, when it’s a part of our lives organically. It encourages people to foster “true productivity” outside of the marriage bed, to care deeply about their surroundings. We have a fruitless society that is now docile, and “true productivity” has slowed. You can see it, everything we produce as humans in the last 15 years looks like no one is living the one flesh God designed, rooted in healthy lifelong bonds. The solution is young, innocent Christian men getting married (becoming one flesh and staying in the union) as soon as possible to women who are also young and innocent. This creates lifetime bonds, bonds that keep the marriage bed healthy and in turn create healthy parental units for children, parents who value the family over things of the world. Children are naturally inclined to see value put into them as they are internally aware of their own “pure life value”, this precedent is needed for them to become productive participants within life, not just “society”. Money can’t set those precedents, only prioritized baby making and child rearing from loving parents can. It’s a wild concept, but we should just be natural and not overthink having babies/falling in love. “It’s time we had the talk about the birds and the bees…” and that talk should explain that humans are no different from the “birds and bees”, it should be an easy talk to have.
“Behold the fowls of the air: for they sow not, neither do they reap, nor gather into barns; yet your heavenly Father feedeth them. Are ye not much better than they?” Matthew 6:26
The same way most men and women don’t overthink falling into our institutional systems is the same way we shouldn’t be overthinking having babies and falling in love. It’s backwards. Having babies and falling in love is what “growing up” actually looks like. Not becoming institutionalized. Becoming institutionalized is what becoming a child to a new parent looks like.
REASON #2: Money doesn’t make the people, people make the money.
This is obvious logic, if any collective population births a lot of newborns they are actively putting the horse in front of the carriage. Why are you so concerned about accruing monetary value and paper assets while the very systems put in place were made by men? Birth men. Unless you fell victim to the systems and feel as if you HAVE TO focus on money or you won’t survive? Well then, that’s the very point. Those pressures over your head were placed there by men, not the paper assets. You beat men with men, not money, you need a team of men to overcome what teams of men are inflicting upon you. Your advantage over the many multiples of adversarial teams inflicting unethical hardships on you is that they’re limply servicing their own lusts for money, so they are nearsighted. Be courageous and solve the issue by having babies or be a docile slave by working your life away focused on security in digits, not security in life. “Slavery is a choice”.
It’s fully accurate that the concept of money was crafted as rules determined by man, rules that are extracting (inefficiently) real human value from daily activity, activities done by real people. The nations of the world lust for money, and that lust wants your actions, and your children’s future actions, why? The money is hardly real, it’s mostly rules and systems. Rules and systems that are made by men to extract from men. So if the birds-eye view is that men (people) house all true value to be extracted, since that’s the point of money, you should see it the same. Groups of people mine mines, groups of people institute banks, institute anything. Groups of people set in place “money”. Have babies in your family so that you have a group of people. And so that very group’s value can be accrued, don’t be alone and valueless or low in value. Once you have those groups don’t let their value become stolen by other men’s lust for money.
REASON #3: People who value the journey go longer than those who value the destination.
Your kids know who is in their parents hearts, if you value money as means of security and not your relationships with people, your children will see that and it will hurt them. Your children will give you endless love and loyalty if you put them before success, that starts at having children in circumstances that are non-ideal. What’s truly non-ideal, circumstances or not having your children in your life? Don’t preemptively leave them out of life by not birthing them because you think life is hard, let The Lord decide. The greatest people have come from the least ideal of situations. But the pain that most people have comes from their parents not valuing life over worldly things and situations. So value life and have babies. The babies will pay it back tenfold. “Lo, children are an heritage of The Lord: and the fruit of the womb is his reward. As arrows are in the hand of a mighty man; so are children of the youth. Happy is the man that hath his quiver full of them: they shall not be ashamed, but they shall speak with the enemies in the gate.” Psalms 127:3-5
The greatest long term investment you can make is getting married, staying married and having kids. If you desire to become financially wise, you should do that, the word “finance” refers to monetary resources, and people are the true perpetuators of all monetary resources. Have a strong family. Life is what is valuable and that is what money extracts, create it (life), don’t spend it being extracted upon. You will be wealthy by the end of your days if you take this advice.
REASON #4: You will come and go and so will your money.
There is little advantage in advising your son to grow up and get a “good job”. Even the best career can be a dead end excuse of a work outlet and it will always become a killing of his “true productivity” capabilities. If you’re incapable of passing down what you are building daily, what does it matter? What is the life inside of you fighting for day in and day out if that very “fight” can’t continue after you’re gone? Passing down paper assets can be an intangible illusion, paper assets are perpetuated by the overarching system and are, by design, created entities of “the cycle”. It wants to be cycled. Money and the lust for it is often (almost always) devaluing with just a little bit of time, you can’t hold and pass on what behaves like vapor. But the things that are important can stay: what you’ve learned, who you are, your commodities and land, your experiences and even your health can be passed to your children if you love them more than money. If instead of them inheriting riches of the world they inherit the intrinsic value of humanity from their parents who are alive in Christ, they will become like royalty in a land of peasants.
REASON #5: Young love & healthy wombs are more effective than prioritized careers & old wombs at creating true value.
This goes to men and women, both must prioritize procreation at a young age before worrying about even the most important other purposes in life. You are called to have fun, procreate and take dominion in that order in Genesis as human beings, “God said unto them, Be fruitful, and multiply…and have dominion”.
Human beings who have just grown up should be actively having fun and making babies, this is what being a healthy human looks like (it may be hard to recognize what being an actual human being looks like in our Babylonian society). You can’t rationalize young people having fun and making babies as a healthy thing to do because you’ve been programmed to give those years to the money god by means of finding security in worldly success. This prioritization of success is a Babylonian principle that even the strictest of Christians are participants of (flips money table). We’ve become unnatural. Look at the animals (caged doves fly from said money table), we are not much different, they have animal babies and they are taken care of. We can, should, and must do the same to value the natural life (Jesus) that lives in us as Christians, lest we be judged as manipulators and become obvious haters of our own seeds. This cultural behavior acts like Parkinson’s Law (work expands to fill the time available for its completion) in that people who are very “financially stable” at youth focus on career over procreation in their very best years. This actually becomes more likely to happen with pre-existing success, as to assure they sustain financial leverage over others. Truly a distraction, truly the monster nurturing its own nature.
When you value career you are often building into what you can’t have, you are not entitled to your money and even your business (if you even own one) in many ways. You have no control over the people in that business unless you have money, and that money you have has no value without the governments that issue it or the systems that perpetuate it (like non-fiat currencies). You don’t have control, you are by definition being financially manipulated and controlled by something else. Your store of value is an illusion, inefficient at best. It’s fleeting. It won’t last.
Your value can last if you love people, your value can become the most effective of compounding interest if you let it be. Life is long if you let it be. Love of money stops life from going past a generation or two, if you value accruement see the threat and store your value in people.
Actually choosing to start a family as a Christian man is a decision you will never forget or regret on your deathbed, if you actually do it right. As you die you won’t be remembering your job, or jobs, or the taxes you paid. You won’t remember who hired or fired you or who you hired or fired. You won’t recall the amount you have in the bank. You’ll internally see your wife, your daughter, your son. You’ll remember your parents. You’ll see that those were the valuable things all along. Take a moment to believe that now before you have no choice but to believe it then. It’s wisdom, and from your current perspective it can become effectively used wisdom if applied right.
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